A fraternety brother wrote...

***  "Petey, there are a lot of Phi's that have done well for themselves, but probably none that have done so well for others."

Isn't that nice?  I tear up reading it.   Because it is not always easy.  In my early years people would sometimes ask, "Isn't it hard being a minister?"  People don't ask this much anymore. They probably said it back then because I was making it look so hard.   It's still hard, I just fake it now.

One of my standard replies was, "Yes, it is a hard way to make a living, but it is a wonderful way to spend a lifetime."

What's the payoff?  Look, when I die I want to go out with two things: gratitude and humility. I really did follow my mom's advice. I don't think I could have done anything else that would have left my cup as filled with gratitude as the parish ministry.

I am thankful. Including for Cathy, and my children, who have supported me while sacrificing plenty.  And including for you. For serving you as your minister these past 25 years has been my greatest joy, well, as well as my greatest challenge.

Which, of course, ushers in the humility thing. If we know God, we are humbled.  We are humbled. As well as amazed and encouraged.

We are humbled before the great gift of life, and the opportunity to respond to it as we are able. I do thank God my response has included the parish ministry, and specifically the parish ministry here with you, lo, these past 25 years. ***

And we are also greatful.  Thank you, Jim.